Spoiler: It's probably not what you think it is.
Let's break down what people think vs what's actually true
We've studied this extensively (mostly by asking our friends)
The scientific study of being a reliable friend. Key indicators: showing up when you say you will, not flaking on plans, and remembering your friend's coffee order.
The brain releases "dopamine" when you actually follow through on plans. Weird, right? It's almost like being reliable feels good.
Measured in "Follow Through Rate" (FTR) and "Reliability Score" (RS). Higher numbers = better friend. It's that simple.
The mental state where you prioritize friendships over excuses. Symptoms: actual calendar management and zero tolerance for flaking.
Bros exist in all forms, genders, and backgrounds. The only requirement: being someone who actually gives a damn about their friends.
The moral philosophy that your word should mean something. If you say you'll be there, you'll be there. Revolutionary concept, we know.
Answer these questions scientifically (not really)
These legendary bros changed the world by simply not being flaky
Actually shows up to study sessions. Brings snacks. Remembers everyone's major. Gets everyone through finals.
Remembers your exact order. Shows up early to save seats. Never forgets wallet. Reliable caffeine dealer.
Actually drives you to your appointments. Waits patiently. Brings entertainment. Doesn't make it about themselves.
Never forgets birthdays. Plans actual celebrations. Shows up with meaningful gifts. Makes you feel special.
Actually answers when you have computer problems. Doesn't make you feel stupid. Follows up to make sure it worked.
Volunteers to be DD. Stays completely sober. Gets everyone home safely. Never complains about it.
Bros come in all genders, shapes, sizes, and backgrounds. Being a bro isn't about how you look, what you sound like, or what stereotypes you fit. It's about showing up, being reliable, and valuing your friendships enough to not flake.
Gender is irrelevant. Anyone can be a bro. Your pronouns don't determine your reliability.
Actions speak louder. It's not about saying "bro" – it's about being there when it counts.
Friendship is universal. Good friends deserve good friends, regardless of background.
Reliability is sexy. There's nothing more attractive than someone who keeps their word.
Excuses are boring. Real bros find solutions, not reasons to bail.
Love is action. Showing up for people is how you show you care.
Stop flaking. Start showing up. Become the bro your friends deserve.